Once there was an old woman and a young woman who would walk each day through the shtetl. One day the old woman would carry turnips from the field and the young woman would carry two buckets of water. Another day, the old woman would carry grains to make kasha and the young woman would carry cucumbers to make pickles. On another day, the old woman would carry her grandchild and the young woman would carry the clean clothes from the drying line. One day the young woman asked the old woman, “what is life’s greatest burden?” The old woman answered, “to have nothing to carry.”
Some thoughts
Still on the picket line. And keeping up with posting here has been a challenge. There are days when the stresses of the week seem to grow stronger and I need to stop and breathe and be still. I find my resolve again, get back to work, take the dog for a walk, enjoy the spring blossoms, and look forward to hearing how my son’s day has gone.
There's another story I tell about zen monks and carrying that seems, perhaps, an opposite of the one above but which is complementary. What does it mean "to carry?" These stories remind me of another context for the use of carry (insofar as we say “carrying a child” to mean pregnancy) that can be found hidden in the word "difference" and the scottish word for children "bairn." The word "different" comes from “dis” meaning “not” and “ferre” meaning “to bear” as in “to bear a child.” Thus different, etymologically speaking, means "not to be able to bear a child." This sense of "to bear" survives in the Scottish word "bairn", i.e. to have been borne. I have often thought about how patriarchy and racism have constructed "normal" as male (and white, amongst other things), while female (and black, brown, etc.) are “different.” But hidden in the history of this word is the notion that “woman” is the baseline and those who do not bear children are the ones who depart from that baseline – who are different. Thus when i hear the old woman say, "to have nothing to carry," i hear many meanings, resonances within resonances.
And I’m reminded of Marge Piercy’s poem, To Be of Use, which I shared in a previous post but which i think is fitting to share here as well:
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